Present Me: I feel like I’m stuck, like I can’t take the first step because I’m afraid it won’t be good enough. What if I make the wrong choice? What if I fail? I keep waiting for the perfect moment, the perfect plan, the perfect step… but it never comes.

Future Me: I know that feeling well. I used to believe that if I just planned enough, prepared enough, or waited long enough, I’d eventually reach a point where everything felt just right. But here’s what I’ve learned: there’s no such thing as a perfect first step.

Present Me: But shouldn’t I at least try to make sure I’m ready? I don’t want to mess up before I even get started.

Future Me: Readiness is an illusion. You’ll never feel completely ready because every new step, every new beginning, comes with uncertainty. And uncertainty is uncomfortable. But waiting until you feel perfectly ready is just another way of avoiding the discomfort of starting.

Present Me: So, what am I supposed to do? Just act without thinking?

Future Me: Not at all. Thoughtful action is different from waiting for perfection. You can prepare, but at some point, you have to start moving—even if you don’t feel ready, even if the first step isn’t perfect. The act of starting is what builds momentum.

Present Me: What if I make a mistake? What if I take the wrong step?

Future Me: You will make mistakes. And that’s okay. Mistakes aren’t the enemy; they’re part of the process. The only way to figure out what works is to try, learn, and adjust. Every person you admire, every success story you’ve ever heard, started with an imperfect first step.

Present Me: That’s easy for you to say—you already know how everything turned out. But I don’t have that certainty.

Future Me: No one ever does, not in the beginning. You have to trust that clarity comes from action, not before it. You don’t need to see the entire path to take the first step. Just take it. Then take another. And another.

Present Me: So, you’re telling me to stop waiting for perfection and just start?

Future Me: Exactly. Start messy. Start scared. Start before you feel ready. The most important thing is to start. Because once you do, you’ll look back and realize that the only thing standing in your way was the belief that you had to be perfect before you began.

Present Me: That makes sense. I think I’ve been letting my fear of imperfection keep me from moving forward.

Future Me: We all do, at some point. But now you know better. So take that step. It doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be yours.

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